Crisis, not mine!

i was the acting counsellor last week for a friend whose heart had been literally shredded into pieces and had no where to turn to for comfort and console. her boyfriend had been nasty to her (and mine you this is not the first time) and he wanted to break up with her; my friend was blinded by her love for him (i don't know whether he felt exactly the same way for her) and hoped that things will return to how and where they once were. she told me they fought like this before and sometimes didn't talk for days or even a week, and somehow they managed to patch things up and return to normal. she thought that he's just bumped up by his work and supervisor, and was having a lot of stress and tension, and that was why he was acting like an idiot towards her. well, i said to my mate,"Don't you think that it's time he learns not to bring his worries from work to home? He is tensed, and look at you. depressed and crying tears and blood. not happy as i use to see u anymore." And there we went ranting over their conversations for another few hours for three days. She told me that she might have to accept that their relationship has over, but she still felt the need to clarify a few things with him. i htink she is still hoping for a rainbow on a rainy day and their relationship might recover but still wobbly and shaky and back to another cycle of 'now you see it now u don't' kindaof thing.